'Middle Georgia Memories' Articles

Family Traditions: Watermelon Summers

Published by Kit S

Here in the South, a large part of our lives are steeped in family traditions. Family traditions surround us and we may not even realize it. Here is an example of one such summer experience.

One of the most well-known and popular southern summer traditions is not a place or an activity. It’s a wonderful food which heralds the arrival of summer. In my opinion, no summer is complete without it! It is the watermelon.

Most southerners have fond memories of eating watermelon during their childhood. I am no different. I can remember playing outside in my sandbox, as a child. The “fun streaks”, also known as sweat lines, were apparent on my grubby little cheeks and hands. My feet were bare and honey brown. I would meet Daddy at the car when he came home from work. As I waited, I remember drawing in the soft dirt with my toes while Daddy reached across the seat for his lunch box. When I looked back up from my dirt drawing, Daddy was holding a huge, dark green watermelon! I must have been smiling all over because Daddy laughed all the way into the house.

At that young age, time didn’t mean much to me. I knew night and day but the seasons were still a mystery. I must have been about three years old when I finally realized what summer was. Summer was when Daddy brought home a watermelon for me. The summer tradition of eating watermelon continues.

This is one of the small memories that has affected my life in many ways. Because I had good memories of my family eating watermelon together, I made sure I continued the tradition with my own family. On a different level, this childhood memory has brought me many smiles and comfort since my dad passed away.

Please remember that even the small memories can make a difference in someone’s life and be sure to take time for family activities. They will all be important in the years to come.

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Take home reminders of your watermelon summers.

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Toddlers Remember More Than You Think

Published by Kit S

If you think that little kids don’t remember or know what’s going on, you are wrong! One of my most vivid memories comes from when I was three years old. During a six week period of time, my mother, father, and I stayed in St. Stephens, SC while my father worked on a construction job. It was then that I discovered birds.

It began in late January. Mom packed some household equipment, clothes, as well as enough books and toys to keep a three year old busy. Everything was loaded into the two cars and we went to stay in a rented single-wide trailer.

The trailer was situated next to a small field that been planted with corn the previous summer but had since been harvested and plowed under. As the plow turned at the end of each row, it left behind kernels of corn which had fallen to the ground during the harvest. I’m sure the owners never had any idea how important their plowed field would be to a little kid.

My days were filled with Mom and I reading books, playing with homemade play dough, singing songs, and watching a tad of television in the afternoons. The first week went by and then it happened. The event that changed my whole experience at the trailer.

It snowed! Since we had come from a more southern part of Georgia, I had never gotten the opportunity to see snow. As with many southern snows, it began with rain, turned to sleet, then to snow, and back to rain again. Over night, the temperature dropped to well below freezing. The morning after the “snow”, foot-long icicles could be seen hanging from the eves of the barn, which stood across the street. Although the weather experience was special, what came with the cold icy weather was more important.

Birds, dozens of them! Redbirds (Cardinals) and a variety of other birds flocked to the field to forage for food. They found a virtual banquet in the plowed field, which I could see from the picture window in the livingroom. Of course, I had to stand on the sofa to see, which was an added treat since I was taught not to put my feet on the furniture.

To say the least, I was amazed at the birds. My mom, being a very resourceful woman, seized the opportunity to keep me busy. She talked to me about the birds and told me what they were doing in the field. Watching the birds became part of our daily ritual, so much so that Mom went to a local store and bought a bird identification book. I loved the pictures in the book! After watching the birds in the field for a while, I was able to tell the difference between the male and female Redbirds.

Over the following weeks, Mom and I completed several birding projects such as putting together our own birdseed mix, making play doughbird nests (complete with eggs), and drawing numerous crayon pictures of the birds. Our time at this splendid place was short lived as we soon moved back home. Little was I to know that my education about birds was just beginning.

When we were settled back in our home, the learning continued with the addition of a brand new bird feeder outside a window. Then came the recordings of bird calls, which at the time could be checked out of the library. By the time summer arrived, not only could I recognize the males and females from several different bird groups, but I could recognize their calls as well.

Thirty-five-plus years later, I still get a warm comfy feeling each time I’m reminded of the short period in February when my mom took the time to talk with me about birds. At the time, I’m sure she just saw it as spending quality time with me. She had done far more than that. Unknowingly, she had instilled a love of birds in her three year old that would last a lifetime.

Since Spring will be with us shortly, consider teaching your toddler or someone special the joys of backyard birding.

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If you already have a fond memory of watching or feeding the birds, you might like this design to remind you of your experience. You can see this same design on other products in our shop by clicking on the link below.


I Feed Birds! -Infant/Toddler T-Shirt

 

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